Is change possible?? Is it earnest and permanent or temporary. This is more of a Question and Opinion blog. I'll ask questions...&& Then give my Opinions haha. No right or wrong answer.
Honestly I dont think people can change...I mean their age may change, the color of their hair may change, style of dress is ever changing...but the characteristics the possess that make up their PERSONALITIES which defines who they are...WILL NEVER CHANGE. You cant Teach an OLD dog NEW tricks is my motto. Some people are just who they are, they may even possess the WANT to change but are incapable of making it happen. Sad but TRUE. Stuck in their ways..can be seen as stubborn in the beginning but after taking time to get to know them better you know that if they COULD they would but they just cant.
To me Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat. Once they lied to you...they will CONTINUE to do so. Fist Hit, Smack, or PUNCH will not be their LAST. I wonder if the people who believe that change is possible, believe it because should the change happen it will benefit them in a positive way and acknowledging that such change doesnt and will never exist would be disheartening?? Neyo has a song called Lie to me..Jasmine Sullivan has a similar song as well....About mind trickery...Some People would rather sit together in the dark than to be ALONE in the light.
You wont get far, living a life of lies. Can reform take place?? && If so..wouldnt it just be easier to remain the same instead of fighting the rest of your life NOT to have a relapse?? Not to revert BACK to your old ways?? Because know this...Once you've professed this "change" the first time you "fall OFF the wagon" it'll be like you never got on in the first place.
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Well, here is the catch 22... people may not change, but people can better themselves, and in turn, change. Redundant right? Well... some people may see the error in their ways and want to better themselves. Once a Cheater... always a cheater...maybe but they may better themselves, that doesn't mean they WILL cheat, just a common knowledge that they are capable.
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