[IN]Love with 2 people??

Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?? After this season of the bachelor, I really wonder if it is possible. I guess it all depends on what your definition of love is. Usher also has a song about being in love with two people at once. I've always thought being {IN} love with someone meant that you were giving your heart to someone while accepting the other persons in return. But if your inlove with 2 people doesnt that mean your heart is torn?? And they only get a piece while you willing recieve theirs in whole?? I keep hearing it is possible but if you feel it is, how then can one decide which one is the right one to be with?? If ou believe this is possible do you believe that a husband can be inlove with both his wife and his mistress?? When committing acts of adultry do you think that if he were really and truly in love with his wife that he wouldnt want to hurt her?? I thought love was kind, understanding, humble and lasting, not temporary, so thin it could be easily divided amongst the rest. Would In like be a better term to use regarding two highly favored people?? If you are in love with two people at once isnt someone short changed?? How does your love for one differ from the other?? I call it being selfish, not wanting to decide between the two and afraid of letting one go (people always want someone waiting in the background. I believe you can have a love for one person that isnt like a love for another but they are equal but to be INlove to me means right here, right now, and if your right here...right now..how can you be there too?? Maybe they arent able to decipher loving someone and being [IN]love with someone, but I would suggest becoming familiar with their definitions.