Insecurities...

Ok so while tweeting Tyrese asked a question: Here's a heavy question of the morning...... When you broke up with your X did you run away from THEM or what YOU created in THEM?

I got to thinking right...Alot of people call themselves doing them and feel like you should be comfortable in your own skin, you need to be able to handle yourself and your feelings. Gotta know that your where it's at and carry it like you dont have a care in the world. That's all fine and dandy but that's called a FRONT because when you know that they are talking to, messaging, seeing other people how can you maintain that same cockiness?? Knowing that if you were really where it was at..they would be HERE with you instead of THERE with them whenever they felt. People get mad when you become paranoid and insecure and question things...but if you made them feel like they were the ONLY one in the beginning then you wouldnt have that problem.

If you think about having to protect the persons feelings and call yourself hiding shit..and wonder why they feel some kind of way knowing it is what it is..dont be mad at the monster you created. Not only did you ruin her for yourself but your contributing to the next person's problem. Insecurity doesnt just FALL outta the air. && when honesty is not the option you've chosen to take..dont be mad when she questions why this and why that, what's missing..blah blah blah..
FYI: QUESTIONS REGARDING WHERE YA'LL STAND STEM FROM THE INSECURITIES YOU CREATED OUT DOING YOU.

I'm not gonna get too deep. I can relate to this though.